Post Mormon Peace

Bridging the Gap: What I Learned from Listening to My Mom

In this episode, Derek reflects on his conversations with his mom for the Post-Mormon Peace Podcast. Initially hoping to help those who left the church understand the other side, he instead found a deeper lesson in listening and empathy. He shares how shifting his approach—from defending a perspective to simply understanding—transformed the dialogue. Derek also explores how belief shapes reality, generational differences in processing faith, and the challenges of navigating family discussions with peace.

Through My Mother's Eyes (Part Three): Creating a Culture of Unity

In the final episode of this three-part series, Derek and Ruth Ann explore how their family has cultivated an atmosphere of mutual respect, love, and acceptance despite differing beliefs. They share practical strategies, lessons learned, and key moments that helped their family grow closer together. This episode is an inspiring testament to the power of open communication, listening, and choosing unity over division.
Books Mentioned in Episode 3That We May Be One: A Gay Mormon's Perspective on Faith and Family by Tom Christofferson
Description: Tom Christofferson, brother of Elder D. Todd Christofferson, shares his journey as a gay member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The book focuses on his experiences with faith, family, and reconciling his identity, highlighting the possibility of unconditional love within families despite differing beliefs or lifestyles.
Bridges: Ministering to Those Who Question by David B. Ostler
Description: Written by a former stake president, this book explores how members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints can build bridges of understanding with those experiencing doubts or leaving the Church. It provides practical insights and strategies for fostering empathy, love, and meaningful conversations.

Through My Mother's Eyes (Part Two): Navigating Differences

Derek and Ruth Ann continue their conversation, diving into the emotional and relational dynamics of navigating faith differences within a family. Ruth Ann reflects on the challenges of seeing her children take different paths and the pivotal moments that shaped her responses. Through candid storytelling, they discuss love, acceptance, and the personal growth that comes with facing hard truths and finding peace.

Through My Mother's Eyes (Part One): Foundations of Faith

in this candid and heartfelt episode, I sit down with my mom, Ruth Ann Williams, to explore her journey of faith, parenting, and love. We dive into her experiences as a devoted member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the values she worked to instill in our family, and the challenges she faced raising children in a world that is ever-changing.
This conversation offers a glimpse into the other side of the dialogue—the perspective of a loving parent, doing their best to nurture faith and provide structure, often shaped by the values and expectations of their generation.
Together, we reflect on moments of connection, generational differences in views on faith, and the importance of open communication in understanding one another. It was a healing and enlightening discussion that deepened my appreciation for her efforts and her unwavering commitment to love and family.

Unlocking Inner Peace: A Practical Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness

Meditation has been one of the greatest contributors to my personal growth in recent years. In this episode, I talk about how my understanding of meditation evolved from seeing it as a way to de-stress to viewing it as a practice that trains the mind and opens doors to peace and mindfulness. I’ll share practical tips, insights from neuroscience, and the Zen principle of the 'beginner’s mind' to help you start or deepen your practice. If you’re ready to explore the benefits of meditation for your sleep, focus, and overall well-being, tune in.

Truth is Subjective

Is truth subjective? Is there a benefit to viewing certain aspects of life in this light?

Faith, Family, and Freedom: An Open Discussion with Jordan Smith About Life After Religion (2/2)

In this episode, Jordan Smith joins me to share his story of navigating a faith transition and the profound changes it brought to his life. We talk about the initial struggles, the emotional journey of self-reflection, and how he found new meaning outside of structured religion. Jordan’s insights into parenting, relationships, and finding peace through physical and mental well-being offer valuable lessons for anyone on a journey of self-discovery. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion about growth, trust, and living authentically.

Faith, Family, and Freedom: An Open Discussion with Jordan Smith About Life After Religion (1/2)

In this episode, Jordan Smith joins me to share his story of navigating a faith transition and the profound changes it brought to his life. We talk about the initial struggles, the emotional journey of self-reflection, and how he found new meaning outside of structured religion. Jordan’s insights into parenting, relationships, and finding peace through physical and mental well-being offer valuable lessons for anyone on a journey of self-discovery. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion about growth, trust, and living authentically.

Finding Peace after Faith: Books that Transform the Journey

Derek shares a list of the most influential books he personally read that helped navigate peacefully through changes in his beliefs.

Derek's Story - Post Mormon Peace (Episode One)

In the premiere episode of Post Mormon Peace, Derek shares his story.